Who inspires you?
My family, but my parents in particular, always stressed education. I am the first in my immediate family to go to college. My parents worked hard to ensure that I would have every opportunity to succeed.
What was the strangest question you have ever had at work?
I wouldn't necessarily say it was strange, but one comment was "Where are the old people who work for Admission?" When they see the staff they see a very young, vibrant, energetic group. They have a misperception about who they'll see behind the desk. When they watch TV shows about college, the top administrators they see are old, seasoned white men with silver hair.
If you could chose another career what would it be and why?
I think I would become a teacher. You have the opportunity to impact so many lives. Specifically, I would teach third grade, which is a very critical time in a child's development, educationally and emotionally.
What book are you reading now?
If it's not an admission application, it's not getting read.
What was your favorite class as an undergrad?
It wouldn't be anything in my major surprisingly. I think it would be geology. I never would have imagined that anyone could get excited about rocks and sediment, but the professors did bring that material to life. Can I have two? I would also say a course in Black literature taught by Joanne Braxton that gave me an opportunity to focus on an era that was reflective of a culture, like the Harlem Renaissance.
Tell me about your family.
My wife, Tatia, was recently appointed as the College's ombudsperson this past January. I am the proud father of two young daughters, Rheis, 3, and Rhyan, 6. We returned to the College at a time when we found out my younger daughter was profoundly deaf in both ears. She received bilateral cochlear implants over ?the last two years. Fortunately, with the help of Rhyan, who is quite talkative, Rheis is consistently improving in her hearing and speech.
What is your proudest moment?
When my younger daughter, the one with the hearing disability, called me "Daddy" for the first time, which was a year ago.
What is your most embarrassing moment?
When I was proposing to my wife at Crystal City Mall, she was sitting on Santa Claus' lap in the food court. I dropped down on one knee, but I was so nervous I put the ring on the wrong hand. She had to correct me, and the food court broke out in applause.
Three things we would find in your refrigerator today?
Ice cream, Crystal Light and hot dogs -- I know that's very healthy.
How did you acquire your sense of humor?
Who said I have a sense of humor? I think it just happened. People take it very differently. Part of it had to do with being reserved growing up. It's a product of that.
Favorite musician/band?
Some would say I have an old spirit. I really love music from the 1970s. In particular, I like Earth, Wind & Fire. More contemporary artists that I enjoy include John Legend and the Marsalis brothers.
What would your best friend say about you?
The guy who was my best friend in College was actually one of my enemies growing up. I've known Matt Brandon '92 since sixth grade. When we arrived on campus we discovered we were roommates. We lived together four years and became best friends. He would probably say that I think I am the better musician. There is this constant debate between us about who was the better trumpet player. We both have our own versions.
